The Proverbs 31 GirlBoss

Hello Beauties. Today, I’m reflecting on my first year of being an entrepreneur, launching this website and living the BOSS Life, as the #GETITGIRLBOSS. It was a year of learning and understanding who I really am, my goals for my business and how it has impacted my family and life. I am taking part in The Rising Tide Society’s “The Recharge Challenge”, running from December 12th-15th, and the first challenge is to choose a quote that will inspire your 2017 goal.

The first thought that came to mind, was a verse from the book of Proverbs, Proverbs 31:25.

“She is clothed in strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future.”

– New Living Translation.

I’ve seen this as a print and graphic around the internet, and it always appealed to me. But, why? I’m not a fan of the “fluffy language”, so I wanted to research other Bible interpretations on this verse.

“Strength and dignity are her clothing, and she smiles at the future.” -NAS

“She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.” – NIV

“Strength and honour are her clothing; and she will rejoice in time to come.” KJV

Okay, so how I interpret it is this…She has inner strength…she is strong in her mind, in her convictions, and in her faith. She is a classy lady. She takes care of herself, keeping her body healthy and carries herself with grace. She is optimistic. She enjoys her family, her work, her friends, and sees the beauty in every moment in every day that is given to her. She is not worried about the future, because her faith in strong in the Lord. For He has given her His promise. To never forsake her, to keep her sheltered and loved.

As we dive deeper to the verses before and after, it paints a fuller portrait of this woman. I really love this breakdown by Nora Conrad. Her original blog post is found here…

Becoming A Proverbs 31 Woman


The first line begins by telling women they are precious and worthwhile. God calls us to be virtuous and capable.


We are called to speak the truth and earn the trust of others. We are to be faithful and enrich not only our lives, but the people around us as well.


We are called to be good to our husbands and family. To cherish them and love them.


God calls us to be hard workers, never lazy and always improving ourselves.


This verse talks about providing the family with food, cooking and serving. This can be taken literally or as I see it, to care for and help your family.


God calls us to wake up before dawn (Maybe one of the hardest tasks for me) and prepare for the day. I see this as God calling us to be hard working and purposeful with our time. I start my day in prayer and then preparing for the day.


This verse was one I had a hard time with. Many people read the Bible and think women should stay home and be housewives. While there is nothing wrong with that, the Lord also calls on us to work hard, earn an income and help our family. It is our job to pay attention to our world and take advantage of opportunities.


Energetic and Strong. This can be your physical strength (working out, health), mental strength (being there for others when they need help) and spiritual strength (asking God for guidance and praying). We are called to do these things with optimism and energy.


Again, we are called to be hard workers. Not only that, but God asks us to ensure our dealings are well handled, even if it means staying up late. We are called to endure during hard times and to continue to work hard.


This verse was another hard one for me. I decided that because verse 13 talks about wool and flax, that this comparison calls for us to be well rounded and understanding of many skills. God calls us to learn and grow and by learning different skills we can help our family.


We are called to help the poor and less fortunate. We are told to love our neighbors and this verse calls us to love those in need by welcoming them with open arms. I also think that has to do with not judging others.


This verse has two key ideas. One being it is our job to provide for our kids and family, to keep them safe and loved. The second being trust in God and his plan. Even during hard times, trust in our work and his is key.


This verse in interesting. God asks us to not be consumed by our looks, but here he tells us to be well dressed. The idea is to treat ourselves like we are worth, which we are! We are told to dress well to present our success that we have made for ourselves and to love ourselves.


This verse is God telling us to marry a man who is a good husband and a good leader. There are many places that talk about marriage in the Bible. I think this verse reiterates that God calls us to marry a man with the same faith as ourselves. Someone who loves God will be a good husband and leader.


Another verse calling us to work for an income. God wants us to provide for ourselves and family. He asks us to sell our work and earn a living wage.


This is one of my favorite verses. We are called to fear nothing but God. We are told to be honorable and strong and to carry ourselves as graceful women. We are also told to laugh – be happy and optimistic.

26- WISE

We are asked to think before we speak and to always do so with kindness. It is asked that we be wise with what we say.


Laziness is not an option. God calls us to take care of our homes (and families) and to work hard for them.


We are promised thanks and praise for our hard work. We are asked to take these praises and give back to our families.


With God in our hearts, we can do achieve anything we set our sights on. We are told we will succeed and excel.


We are called to fear the Lord. He is the only one we should fear, and through that fear we will come to know him and accept him into our hearts. We are told to live in a way that honors God.


The last verse tells us that we will be praised for our hard work and dedication. God promises to recognize our faith.

The Proverbs 31 Woman sounds a lot like a GirlBoss to me! This will be the inspiration to my coming year. Nora wraps it up so perfectly…


Obviously that is a lot to take in. We are not perfect, nor does God expect us to be. Becoming a Proverbs 31 woman means working hard to become a woman who honors God. To simplify this even more I have a list of things I try to do daily/weekly/monthly that helps me become closer to God.

Remember that you are worthy of God’s grace.
Be truthful and faithful.
Love others, be good to others and pray for others.
Work hard in everything you do.
Wake up early and start the day with God. Pray every day and praise our Lord.
Study and learn. Enrich your life with knowledge and understanding and become well rounded in your skills.
Take advantage of opportunities in business, helping others, and caring for others.
Be strong and endure hard times. Put your faith in God to help you when you feel lost.
Love and honor yourself; dress well, exercise, behave well.
Find a husband who shares your values and love of God.
Fear God and honor him in all things.
Remember that you are praise worthy and will be rewarded for your work.


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